There is that special moment when two people click, rather than simply meet. Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman, Crown Business, $ (p). The following summary of Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman’s book ‘Click – The magic of instant connections’ is courtesy of Paul Arnold. The Book: Click: The Magic of Instant Connections by Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman, Broadway Books, $ Hardcover, Pages, June.

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The vocabulary was relatively simple, but it made it easier to attain the message that both authors were trying to send. In teams constructed where people did not know each other were more congenial with each other, not wanting to offend — there was very little conflict. Goodreads helps you keep track of books you want to read. I got a bunch of designs back. Where did they go to school?

How To Click With People – with Ori Brafman – Mixergy

If you’re a premium member, you brafmaan save your likes. Not oti did they feel they had formed a closer bond, but months later they reported a retained sense of bonding. So what we had to do.

The openness that this promotes can lead to an intimate connection being established Posing a series of probing and increasingly intimate questions. So, is it that we are shutting off the analytical portion of our brain or is this an important piece of data for us? So again, that seems pretty common sense.

This book is an easy read and in my mind, covers a very important of how to get along with oir people. The second one is, are you doing something that you feel you have mastery of? Turns out that all the couples had as much, dlick longetivity of the relationship was the same. You’ve got to be vulnerable in order to encourage the other to do the coick. And you have to wonder why is it that these relationships formed at different times of tenure?


I’m far from convinced this really dealt with what makes us click with people, and is instead a collection of psychological studies that are interesting, but do not fully support the ‘how to’ notes at the end of each chapter. Whenever I have worked in companies and with people, the bosses have always tried to keep people who click far away from each other and odi put them in different teams because of the closeness.

Some of us have met a person who instantly feels like a soul mate. Or they naturally meet you where you are. The environment fosters intimacy.

I think you’ll click with it too. What we valued in life was very much the same, as were the things we thought were trivial.

Login or become a premium member. The Southern California evening breeze was starting to pick up. One of the key findings is that proximity leads to spontaneous communication — i. I got on my Kendal on my blackberry because I phone is broken. These people also tend to be at the centre of social networks. When compared to a base level where no badge was worndonation levels were doubled. Dec 08, Derek Neighbors rated it it was amazing.

Feb 25, Orsolya rated it it was ok Shelves: Likewise, the ability to maintain appropriate levels of eye contact helps build rapport vs. The authors collect anecdotes about meaningful and successful and profitable relationships, and they dissect each relationship to inspect its component parts.

‘Click’: That Magical Instant Connection Explained

Paul was used to this level of braffman. If you have heard the interview all the way through and I know you have, use brsfman and email me what you thought and I will do the same thing for you. The Brafman brothers have explored this phenomenon in the book Click. You want to be in a place where you feel mastery and at the same time challenged and at the same time present enough to pay attention to the other people in the surrounding.

Quantity of similarity trumps topic. It’s very interesting, and there are insights that you can use in your own life. I would recommend this book to anyone with small amounts of spare time that is willing to learn for pleasure. So here is a new answer I am understanding about this, about this fist click accelerator. But see how it feels to, to be in a similar emotional state with someone else brafnan if I can give two homework pieces, the other thing I would say is, see what ogi like even with the company to take something, just a notch on a more vulnerable side where as you do that.


So the question is, so of course is, so this is a natural trait, some people are brrafman high self monitors than others, what can we do to [learn from these high]connection [IB]?

Now I understand the dynamics behind it. One moment brwfman were laughing at embarrassing childhood stories, and the next they were finishing each other’s sentences.

When you look at teams that work for example, teams that click together are much more efficient, much more effective, seventy percent much more so when you look at a group of MBAs for example when they are giving specific tasks to perform. We are social animals.

Brafman explores the components of the process of clicking especially the similarities and differences of the two persons and the manner in which they click. Great book of the power of making connections with people.

‘Click’: That Magical Instant Connection Explained : NPR

Well, you really have to roll with the punches on that one. And if you have read the book and I really hope you guys go out there and get the book tell me what you think of the book overall and how you view the ideas in the book. Their natural social familiance. May 16, Carlin Nasiatka rated it it was amazing.